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BEING SINGLE
I went to see a psychic and I paid for good advice
He said "Forget a romance 'til you've sorted out your life.
Be your own mother and your father and your sister and brother,
And even try to crack the art of being your own lover...
- Girlfriend, Julia Fordham

Bunny posts about her (former) single life.. Raymond recently posted about a book on relationships. Below is a review from Amazon.com, cut and paste from the same post:

"He blames the widespread inability to find long-lasting love on consumer habits that have crept into current dating mores (e.g., waiting for the 'best' person to marry), and spending too much time on love-substitutes (work, friends, sex, independence) that prevent love from entering the lives of men and women alike. With his usual sprinkling of religious references (Adam and Eve are used as relationship role models), Boteach encourages singles to acknowledge their loneliness and work on their own behaviors and choices instead of merely lamenting the lack of worthy mates or lauding the joys of the single life..."

This is all I have to say for now: One's loneliness (or happiness, for that matter) should not be a function of one's status. We are the masters of our emotions and feelings. Difficult it may be, we have the power over how to respond to and manage our feelings. After all, life is all about choices. We are how (and who or where) we are, because we chose to be.






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